By Catholic Stewardship Consultants
www.CatholicSteward.com
Have you ever wondered why no one really becomes uneasy when someone brings up the first two “T’s” of stewardship — giving of your time or talents — but when the third “T” comes up, many of us become uncomfortable?
That third “T” is treasure, and some people simply become so annoyed by the subject, they tune out the words from the pulpit.
Why is there seemingly such an adverse reaction?
Our finances are such a personal subject. Discussing money issues with others is not easy, and having someone tell us what to do with our finances is even worse. We earn the money, after all, shouldn’t we decide what to do with it?
Of course, the answer is “yes” — we decide every day how to spend our hard-earned dollars. Indeed, the monetary choices we make will either keep our finances in check or put us in the red.
The average American family has about $7,000 in credit card debt — so finances certainly represent a challenge to our current society. Tight budgets, trying to “keep up with the Joneses” or poor financial management may be to blame for our tight resources. Does this mean we do not have anything left over for God?
Stewardship, at its roots, teaches that we are not supposed to give God our “leftovers.” We should instead strive to return to God a portion of our “first fruits” — giving to God first, then using the rest for other needs. God gave us our talents that help us earn a living, after all. He should come first.
This idea can be worrisome for many. If our finances are already strained, how will we ever find enough to give back to God? Or, if we do try to give God our “first fruits,” will there be enough left over to cover our required expenses?
Taking the correct financial steps toward good stewardship simply boils down to trust — believing that God, who takes care of all of his creation, will take care of us. Trust that in giving to God first, we are both acknowledging that our multitude of blessings come from him, and that we are thankful he chose to give them to us. And finally, trust that if we give to him first, that all else will fall into place — because he is in ultimate control.
