I was deeply saddened to read of Father Patrick Freitas’ death in the Hawaii Catholic Herald, Oct. 8. Father Freitas was a kind and gentle priest who left a lasting impression in my life. He was an existentialist whom I could identify with.
I enjoyed listening to his lectures during the long diaconate formation weekends. He was deep in thought and his spirituality manifested as a bright light of hope for the future while I pondered my life as a deacon’s wife with all its roles and responsibilities. Father Freitas’ lectures often reminded me of my graduate classes in clinical psychology when I was pursuing my doctorate degree. I always looked forward to hearing him teach at the formation weekends.
When I met with him individually, he listened intently with a heart filled with compassion. I spoke of my struggles raising a child with multiple severe disabilities and who was medically fragile while also working full-time as the Maui district school psychologist and caring for my in-laws’ emotional needs as they resided with us. As Father Freitas spoke, his wisdom astounded me. He always chose the sincerest words and empathized with me. There was no judgement in his voice. I could feel his immense love.
Father Freitas indeed succeeded at leading and serving with a mother’s heart. I was blessed with his insight and joy that emerged after each session with him. He helped me with developing a renewed wholeness in Christ and to appreciate the richness of my life. He reassured me that my son Lokahi would survive, and God’s hand was upon him.
I was fortunate to have known Father Patrick Freitas. He was the highlight of my training in the diaconate formation program. The tears of sadness are now tears of joy knowing that Father Freitas is with our Lord. Father Freitas was truly gifted and remarkable.
— Charmaine Bissen
Christ the King Parish, Kahului
