Today is not always a happy day. Society puts so much into it that some may feel the need to “have” someone even if it’s just for today. I remember being single, without a girlfriend or someone who would be my valentine for the day. Honestly, it wasn’t fun, but it did get me asking, “What’s so important about having a valentine?”
St. Valentine is a person masked in legend. Today, he is synonymous with hearts and arrows which actually is more reminiscent of Cupid, the mythical god of desire. However, according to old texts, Valentinus was a priest who helped Christians being persecuted and married Christian couples against the emperor’s orders. This is what eventually led to his martyrdom.
So, on this Valentine’s Day, go against the tide and reach out to those around you. Host a St. Valentine’s Day evening for singles celebrating the love that God has for each of us. Pray, share a meal, and share some time with them. Let them know that even when they feel down, they will always have a Valentine.
Makana Aiona is the diocesan coordinator for Young Adult Ministry.